Virgin to light
Seeds need darkness to grow.
Grapes need to be trampled before they become wine.
A golem has to fight a cocoon to get out into a butterfly.
If you do not crush the olives, you can not get olive oil.
If there is no pressure, diamonds are not created.
So the next time you feel that you're under pressure and in the dark, that you are crushed and trampled, if you feel that you have to fight to get out of a new place - you may be changing for the better.